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Damien 21-08-2004 23:17
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what do you do from day to day? doo you have a job?

Seriously a job/college course that has a future will help as you will begin to look into a goood future. Also it will give you a chance to make friends and talk to people everyday.

kronas 21-08-2004 23:20
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Originally Posted by Damien
what do you do from day to day? doo you have a job?

Seriously a job/college course that has a future will help as you will begin to look into a goood future. Also it will give you a chance to make friends and talk to people everyday.

i dont do much, i try to, my mind and body wont let me, you dont understand my situation.

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Originally Posted by Bifta
I hesitate to point this out (ok, I don't really) but Kronas, with your current state of mind there's not a woman alive that deserves to put up with you, and should you find someone, believe me, they won't for very long. I'd suggest trying to sort yourself out first before even thinking about the opposite sex because the cure for whatever the f*ck is wrong with you is NOT a woman.
oh i beg to differ, atleast i would have someone to share my true feelings, it may in the end make me a better person, possibly provide a distraction providing a turning point in my life, where i can think/do/attempt to be assertive relaxed and create a diffarent bond with someone, its an idea, as i said in my blog, i have always wanted a proper relationship, maybe inactive parts of my life haunt me...

Damien 21-08-2004 23:26
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You are 18. Be careful that you dont look back on this time and wish you had done something. Why cant you work?

But the sitituation is not that bad, you are young you can still get a good education, good social life and such its a case of looking for it :)

Bifta 22-08-2004 00:02
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Originally Posted by kronas
oh i beg to differ, atleast i would have someone to share my true feelings, it may in the end make me a better person, possibly provide a distraction providing a turning point in my life, where i can think/do/attempt to be assertive relaxed and create a diffarent bond with someone, its an idea, as i said in my blog, i have always wanted a proper relationship, maybe inactive parts of my life haunt me...
Do you honestly think that women purposefully set out to seek men with the amount of emotional baggage that you're carting around? Dream on! The onus is not on a potential partner to "sort you out" only you can do that and it would appear that seeking advice on these forums regarding your persistant problems hasn't got you any further forward, so perhaps we can be spared it in future?

kronas 22-08-2004 00:06
Re: kronas needs a woman !
 
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Originally Posted by Bifta
Do you honestly think that women purposefully set out to seek men with the amount of emotional baggage that you're carting around? Dream on! The onus is not on a potential partner to "sort you out" only you can do that and it would appear that seeking advice on these forums regarding your persistant problems hasn't got you any further forward, so perhaps we can be spared it in future?
no, thats because that part of my life will be seperated, i will be diffarent around someone who i care about, i have someone else to concentrate on, continue to live my life, meet new people, if its past your understanding as to what i am saying dont reply to my thread.

as someone just said to me " just concentrate on something you enjoy doing" thats my aim!

Electrolyte01 22-08-2004 00:10
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" just concentrate on something you enjoy doing" thats my aim!
Good, I do that and it works, always keeps my chin up and my spirit up :)

kronas 22-08-2004 00:14
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Good, I do that and it works, always keeps my chin up and my spirit up :)
im in a good mood right now dont spoil it :p: ;) :D

Bifta 22-08-2004 00:47
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Originally Posted by kronas
no, thats because that part of my life will be seperated, i will be diffarent around someone who i care about, i have someone else to concentrate on, continue to live my life, meet new people, if its past your understanding as to what i am saying dont reply to my thread.
How do you know you'll be different, have you prior experience of this in a succesful relationship? I like my partner to be themselves, not base our relationship on some kind of front they're putting on.

kronas 22-08-2004 00:51
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Originally Posted by Bifta
How do you know you'll be different, have you prior experience of this in a succesful relationship? I like my partner to be themselves, not base our relationship on some kind of front they're putting on.
it not a front, i feel i can be myself in a relationship, as i can care for someone, be more relaxed then worry for no apparent reason, share things, experiances, do things, i feel i can bring some form of normality in, i feel its something that may encourage em to release myself from a depressed and unimpressive mental display.

Richard M 22-08-2004 00:54
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Kronas, until you've had real experience of relationships you cannot possibly comment on these things.
"real experience" can be defined as meeting someone, the pain of breaking up etc.

kronas 22-08-2004 00:56
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Originally Posted by Richard M
Kronas, until you've had real experience of relationships you cannot possibly comment on these things.
"real experience" can be defined as meeting someone, the pain of breaking up etc.
true, i can only imagine, but i would rather put things in to practice, so i would rather start somewhere, then be nowhere. :)

Bifta 22-08-2004 01:02
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Originally Posted by kronas
it not a front, i feel i can be myself in a relationship, as i can care for someone, be more relaxed then worry for no apparent reason, share things, experiances, do things,
Why can you "be yourself" in a relationship but not now? How does being in a relationship make you worry less? Someone as obviously insecure as yourself, will probably worry more, "will she dump me?", "does she really find me attractive?", "is she sleeping with someone else?". Why does it have to be a "partner" you share things with, are you incapable of making and keeping good friends?

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i feel i can bring some form of normality in, i feel its something that may encourage em to release myself from a depressed and unimpressive mental display.
It seems like you're looking for a relationship to cure your depression, women are not attracted to people like that (I'm willing to stand corrected of course, not by you though, but by a woman), and yes, you're right, your "mental display" is certainly becoming most unimpressive (and not just to me)

Richard M 22-08-2004 01:11
Re: kronas needs a woman !
 
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Originally Posted by Bifta
It seems like you're looking for a relationship to cure your depression, women are not attracted to people like that...
That is very true.
A woman looks for confidence in a man, a sense of humour is also good.

kronas 22-08-2004 01:17
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Originally Posted by Bifta
It seems like you're looking for a relationship to cure your depression, women are not attracted to people like that (I'm willing to stand corrected of course, not by you though, but by a woman), and yes, you're right, your "mental display" is certainly becoming most unimpressive (and not just to me)
your totally wrong. im not replying to any of your posts herein, as i said before you simply dont understand my point of view.

Richard M 22-08-2004 01:19
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Originally Posted by kronas
your totally wrong.
No he's not.
I think Bifta would know what he's talking about seeing as he's married (AFAIK?).
A woman is looking for a man and a man is strong, not just physically but mentally also - woman need someone to support them and not somebody who will burst into tears at every opportunity.
Sorry if I come across as being blunt but that's the way it is. :shrug:


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