Re: kronas needs a woman !
 

so, lets see if I can get this right.. the suggestions made were more in the context of "right of passage" than a source of enjoyment in themselves?

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No, you're confusing this thread with what I said to you on MSN ;)

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You are missing the point.kronas is tending to become more and more introspective and he knows this is not the best thing for him.However we as a group have tried everything to shake him into seeking professional help and to get him out into society more,at his request.However all our suggestions seem either to be ignored or dismissed so now we are trying to jolly him along,to encourage him to break the cycle he has got into.We are scraping the bottom of the barrel of our collective experiences here. :)

Frankly I've got to the point where I have no more advice beyond be yourself when dealing with girls and seek professional help from a qualified source rather than forum amateurs with only life experience to offer.Take it or leave it kronas but stop asking for advice if you aren't going to take it.It's pointless unless you listen and use any of it.

Sorry to be harsh but there it is. :(

Incog

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:clap:

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:dozey: and :dozey: yes i do have more braincells than you think, sheesh i dont know why i even replied to this....

i think before i do things (usally)


the thing is im not a typical 18 year old, im controlled, i know what i am doing, i certainly dont want to look/act like a prat, drink, take drugs, smoke, im not in to the typical things an 18 year old is, im much more aligned with older people, always have been.

im not sitting on anything, i just get snappy at times :D

i point blank refuse to do those things.

i know whats best for me, staying away from drinking and smoking is good for me, especially when my physical state is more than questionable.

im not happy, but thats because of a number of reasons, i see your point, i dont expect the first person i come across to be 'the one' at the same time i dont not want to be in the land of promiscuity.... :erm:

my morals/ethics dont allow me to, im just not that type of person, im ofcourse willing to accept multiple relationships to find someone.

i maybe ill but i still know what im on about!!!

i saw your rep, my bad, i apologise :D i have not seen the movie...well in full...

you need to read my blog, because everything is on there, i sought proffesional help long ago, two sources to be exact.

i have listened to it, im not even in control of myself, i have seeked help, i nagged people to get help, its getting me nowhere, hence why i try here, as i said look at my blog, you will see in the previous postings i have seeked help.

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if i do im a :dunce: for not seeing them, unfortunately i just dont see them if i do have them, the problem i see people as being 'nice to your face' when in reality they really dont think something positive or see a quality of you.


well as you will see in other replies i will NEVER turn to alcohol or drugs or any related form of activity.

im sorry but you have to accept that i will not step over that line, i know most people say it but, people have offered me ciggarettes, alcohol, i have sat with people who have drunk litres of the stuff, not once have i flinched, i never will


for starters, i dont want to be ****ed up or going 'on the lookout' just for a shag, its not me, thats me being honest!

so do i.

agreed.

again i wholeheartedly agree.




its what i want to do, unfortunately the people i come across (currently have) do all of things mentioned previously, so there is no closeness.....

if your talking about drugs/alcohol, its what some people do to escape, admittedly most do it for 'recreational' purposes, as well as to 'fit in'

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I think alcohol is seen in too much of a negative light - it can raise people's spirits, make people happy and it can drown irrelevant worries*. Look across the continent, where it is drinken sensibly and in moderation. (And don't flood me with exceptions, people. Yes, there are exceptions... but in general, these people can control themselves.) No fights, no arguments or disputes, no damaging property. Just merriness and a positive attitude. Just seems that in this country we cannot handle it. I think one of the problems for this is the 'big, hard, mature' image which people associate with alcohol, which is stupid really. Also, the early closing times and the happy hours. People rush their drinks and have too much.

If people drink in moderation, don't drive whilst alchohol is still in the blood and just enjoy themselves then I see no problem.


*Hell yes, before some people start, I know the bad parts all too well also.

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i see your point, the inevitable thing is i have a mindset of not wanting to drink, its always been there...i see it as a bad thing for so many reasons (which are obvious) i dont think alcohol, drugs, or anything related to that will help me, because im just refusing, i dont know why OB even suggested it, i certainly would not say that to someone.

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Have you ever drank?

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not even a sip, that goes for smoking and drugs aswell...

im not afraid, im just restrained, i dont want to start doing something whch could become uncontrollable, its just looking for trouble, and then there are the health issues to contend with.

omg i just found a match to a woman im 4.5 her match, shes 4 on my match looking at the profile meter, damn paysite.....

the thing is shes looking for intamacy and freedom, just like me :rolleyes:

this always happnes, something stops me :rolleyes: :cry:

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Go for it! What's stopping you?

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its going to cost me £17 at the moment i dont have a source of income (had to leave my job because of personal issues)

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Ah... that sucks.

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dont i know it :(

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kronas, by the size of this thread, you arn't THAT desperate are you? :p: