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nashville 19-08-2016 23:17

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Originally Posted by Hom3r (Post 35854818)
Thanks the BBC says it should be nice, so I'm taking winter survival gear :D

The camp is next to the beach so no messing about with parking :D

Have a nice time

denphone 20-08-2016 06:51

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Originally Posted by Hom3r (Post 35854806)
I go on my hols tomorrow for the first time since 2014.

We should have been in a silver plus caravan, but the owner pulled it from the site, so we have been given a gold caravan.

The minor bug is from 3 bedrooms down to 2, but I don't mind sleeping on the sofa bed.

But if a 3 bedroom caravan does become available it'll be ours.

l hope you all have a lovely time hom3r.

TheDaddy 21-08-2016 20:39

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Originally Posted by dilli-theclaw (Post 35854686)
I get to go away for a long weekend bank holiday weekend which was a pain to organise with dialysis but at least we're off for a bit , very nice :)
Yarmouth beware!

I was in Yarmouth in June. Had a lovely afternoon tea. Only downside was louis toussards wax house has shut down :(

dilli-theclaw 23-08-2016 18:48

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Natalie is off for a little bit so will be coming with me to dialysis, it's nice to have some company :)

RichardCoulter 23-08-2016 21:06

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Woke up to find two tiny kittens squeeking in my cupboard 19 days ago.

About a week ago their mother moved them to a cardboard box with some outstanding paperwork in it, which will just have to wait until their mother decides the little ones are to be moved again.

If any suppliers etc complain, I will simply tell them the truth :D

S_james 23-08-2016 22:29

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Originally Posted by RichardCoulter (Post 35855596)
Woke up to find two tiny kittens squeeking in my cupboard 19 days ago.

About a week ago their mother moved them to a cardboard box with some outstanding paperwork in it, which will just have to wait until their mother decides the little ones are to be moved again.

If any suppliers etc complain, I will simply tell them the truth :D

Suppliers of what? An you seem extremely unprofessional, I can only assume your suppliers are small company's!

heero_yuy 24-08-2016 08:53

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Originally Posted by RichardCoulter (Post 35855596)
Woke up to find two tiny kittens squeeking in my cupboard 19 days ago.

About a week ago their mother moved them to a cardboard box with some outstanding paperwork in it, which will just have to wait until their mother decides the little ones are to be moved again.

If any suppliers etc complain, I will simply tell them the truth :D

All very cute but I'd still want my bill(s) paid promptly or on the blacklist you go.

RichardCoulter 24-08-2016 16:43

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If kittens are disturbed their mother may abandon them or even eat them.

Any outstanding invoices that are in there will have to wait until she moves her nest (which they do frequently to put off predators).

Osem 24-08-2016 18:13

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Originally Posted by dilli-theclaw (Post 35855559)
Natalie is off for a little bit so will be coming with me to dialysis, it's nice to have some company :)

Yup! :)

Mrs Osem will be home tomorrow evening after a 10 day trip to see friends and family in Europe. Can't wait. ;)

MalteseFalcon 25-08-2016 10:55

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Weighed myself this morning. On the morning of my first job with this company, I weighed 108.7 kilos. This morning, 98.5 kilos. That's in the space of 8 weeks. First time since going on study leave back in 2001 for GCSE's that I've been under 100 kilos.

Hugh 25-08-2016 11:05

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Well done, Mark

nashville 25-08-2016 11:49

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Good for you Mark

MalteseFalcon 25-08-2016 13:54

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Thanks.

heero_yuy 25-08-2016 19:36

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Last night for the first time this "Summer" I had to put the air-con on in the bedroom. Shear bliss. Will rev it up tonight as well as it's over 23C at the moment outside.:)

RichardCoulter 25-08-2016 20:48

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Originally Posted by RichardCoulter (Post 35855728)
If kittens are disturbed their mother may abandon them or even eat them.

Any outstanding invoices that are in there will have to wait until she moves her nest (which they do frequently to put off predators).

This afternoon she moved them to the inside of the sofa!!!

Osem 25-08-2016 23:07

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Wife's home safe and sound. Bloody M25 caused the usual problems when it took me 90 mins to do about 2 miles FGS! Good job I only have to suffer it rarely.

MalteseFalcon 26-08-2016 00:29

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I'm well acquainted with the road lately, especially the Heathrow and Gatwick junctions. Ugh. Sadly, we can't seem to find routes that avoid the M25 or Central London.

Osem 26-08-2016 13:16

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I woke up next to Mrs Osem. :)

Very well done on the weight loss Mark. :tu:

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Originally Posted by heero_yuy (Post 35855988)
Last night for the first time this "Summer" I had to put the air-con on in the bedroom. Shear bliss. Will rev it up tonight as well as it's over 23C at the moment outside.:)

Lucky devil - our ceiling fan was going at full tilt but the Velux windows do a very good job of ventilating the upstairs so that helps.

weenie 30-08-2016 10:40

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Well done Mark on the weight loss.

Today is my pre-op assessment so fingers crossed it will not be to long till the operation itself, although I'm naturally nervous. I know it's a must as I can't cope with this pain level on a weekly basis (the sickness yes) but the pain itself is horrendous.

Osem 30-08-2016 13:54

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Originally Posted by weenie (Post 35856655)
Well done Mark on the weight loss.

Today is my pre-op assessment so fingers crossed it will not be to long till the operation itself, although I'm naturally nervous. I know it's a must as I can't cope with this pain level on a weekly basis (the sickness yes) but the pain itself is horrendous.

I know just how you feel Weenie. The pre-assessment will only be valid for a certain period of time (12 weeks IIRC) after which it will have to be re-done if the surgery hasn't taken place so they'll be keen to get on with it I imagine. I'm sure the nurse will be able to give you some idea of what the timescales are in your hospital. In my case, I also had to have a certain blood test in the week prior to surgery so that may need to be arranged for you too. Depending on how long it turns out to be, in your position I'd certainly contact the hospital periodically to see whether they've had any cancellations. That's exactly what I did. Hope it goes well. :hugs:

TheDaddy 30-08-2016 14:48

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Originally Posted by weenie (Post 35856655)
Well done Mark on the weight loss.

Today is my pre-op assessment so fingers crossed it will not be to long till the operation itself, although I'm naturally nervous. I know it's a must as I can't cope with this pain level on a weekly basis (the sickness yes) but the pain itself is horrendous.


Good luck, sure you'll be fine.

Well done on the weight loss Mark

denphone 30-08-2016 16:40

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Originally Posted by weenie (Post 35856655)
Well done Mark on the weight loss.

Today is my pre-op assessment so fingers crossed it will not be to long till the operation itself, although I'm naturally nervous. I know it's a must as I can't cope with this pain level on a weekly basis (the sickness yes) but the pain itself is horrendous.

Good luck today weenie on your pre-op assessment and even more good luck for your operation when that happens as my thoughts and wishes are with you.

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Originally Posted by MarkC1984 (Post 35855884)
Weighed myself this morning. On the morning of my first job with this company, I weighed 108.7 kilos. This morning, 98.5 kilos. That's in the space of 8 weeks. First time since going on study leave back in 2001 for GCSE's that I've been under 100 kilos.

Well done Mark as its certainly easier to put on weight but much harder to lose weight and you have done well.

nashville 30-08-2016 17:11

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We are all thinking of you Weenie, sooner it's done you will be free from pain. Take Care

denphone 30-08-2016 17:40

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My happiness today stems from my hospital visit where they are are happy with the wound healing process and all the figures they downloaded from the ICD.:)

dilli-theclaw 30-08-2016 17:44

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Originally Posted by denphone (Post 35856737)
My happiness today stems from my hospital visit where they are are happy with the wound healing process and all the figures they downloaded from the ICD.:)

excellent, I am pleased :tu: :)

TheDaddy 31-08-2016 07:11

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Originally Posted by denphone (Post 35856737)
My happiness today stems from my hospital visit where they are are happy with the wound healing process and all the figures they downloaded from the ICD.:)


Glad it all went well

heero_yuy 31-08-2016 08:31

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Originally Posted by denphone (Post 35856737)
My happiness today stems from my hospital visit where they are are happy with the wound healing process and all the figures they downloaded from the ICD.:)

Good news. :tu:

Quoted yesterday for a £10K project for the late autumn and the PO from the client is on it's way! Should be a very merry Xmas.:)

denphone 31-08-2016 08:55

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Originally Posted by heero_yuy (Post 35856883)
Good news. :tu:

Quoted yesterday for a £10K project for the late autumn and the PO from the client is on it's way! Should be a very merry Xmas.:)

That's excellent news old boy.:tu:

Osem 31-08-2016 09:29

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Originally Posted by heero_yuy (Post 35856883)
Good news. :tu:

Quoted yesterday for a £10K project for the late autumn and the PO from the client is on it's way! Should be a very merry Xmas.:)

Beers are on you mate! :tu:

:beer:

weenie 31-08-2016 12:20

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Originally Posted by heero_yuy (Post 35856883)
Good news. :tu:

Quoted yesterday for a £10K project for the late autumn and the PO from the client is on it's way! Should be a very merry Xmas.:)

:) Excellent

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Originally Posted by denphone (Post 35856737)
My happiness today stems from my hospital visit where they are are happy with the wound healing process and all the figures they downloaded from the ICD.:)

I'm so pleased for you den but remember and take it easy. Take care :)

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Well pre-op assessment went well although I have been told atm it is 12 weeks waiting time so that takes it up to 22nd of November :( I do hope it will be sooner as I have asked them to put in my notes that I will take any hospital and cancellation if one should become available. Quite honestly I do not care where I go to get this operation they could even remove it with a spoon for all I care just as long as I'm knocked out that is all I care about. The good news is they said it will be done and as a day patient all going well on the day so that's good as I would rather recover at home.

@ Osem they took my bloods yesterday so I don't know if that is a good thing, they also sent me for a ECG to trace my heart. Where I am slightly confused is I don't need to follow any diet before my op which I found strange as when speaking to others they needed to follow a diet whereas I don't for some reason. Any way I have plenty of reading as they sent me home with many booklets to read (laparoscopic cholecystectomy day case, day surgery information for patients,reducing your risk of blood clots and pre-operative fasting instructions and advice).

I did make a fool of myself by asking why is my legs getting measured for a gallbladder operation and the reply I got was for surgical stockings after that I decided not to ask any more questions as I felt quite silly for asking that question and at this point I decided the best option was to keep my mouth shut for a change :D

Osem 31-08-2016 14:00

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Originally Posted by weenie (Post 35856904)
:) Excellent

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I'm so pleased for you den but remember and take it easy. Take care :)

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Well pre-op assessment went well although I have been told atm it is 12 weeks waiting time so that takes it up to 22nd of November :( I do hope it will be sooner as I have asked them to put in my notes that I will take any hospital and cancellation if one should become available. Quite honestly I do not care where I go to get this operation they could even remove it with a spoon for all I care just as long as I'm knocked out that is all I care about. The good news is they said it will be done and as a day patient all going well on the day so that's good as I would rather recover at home.

@ Osem they took my bloods yesterday so I don't know if that is a good thing, they also sent me for a ECG to trace my heart. Where I am slightly confused is I don't need to follow any diet before my op which I found strange as when speaking to others they needed to follow a diet whereas I don't for some reason. Any way I have plenty of reading as they sent me home with many booklets to read (laparoscopic cholecystectomy day case, day surgery information for patients,reducing your risk of blood clots and pre-operative fasting instructions and advice).

I did make a fool of myself by asking why is my legs getting measured for a gallbladder operation and the reply I got was for surgical stockings after that I decided not to ask any more questions as I felt quite silly for asking that question and at this point I decided the best option was to keep my mouth shut for a change :D


Hi Weenie, glad it went well.

I can't answer the question on the diet issue because I was never given any specific advice on dietary changes necessary either before or after the surgery.

The ECG is purely routine.

The blood test I referred to was a specific test (and I can't recall what for) which had to be done the same week as the surgery. It may have been something specific to my situation (I'd suffered an infected gall bladder) so it's possible it was to do with that and you might not need one I guess.

As regards the cancellations, I think I'd be inclined to ring in fairly regularly and hopefully that way you'll get the chance to have a chat to the staff responsible for managing the list and register your situation and circumstances with them. I always think that's much more effective than simply being just another name on a waiting list.

Yes I was measured for stockings also and wondered the same thing but it's a routine measure now to reduce the risk of blood clots in the legs. I bet you'll look better in them than I did... :D

If it is day surgery so much the better. I know there was a complication when they did my op and I wound up staying in because I had to have a surgical drain inserted. It'd have been much nicer to be back home in my own bed...

weenie 31-08-2016 14:14

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Originally Posted by Osem (Post 35856927)
Hi Weenie, glad it went well.

As regards the cancellations, I think I'd be inclined to ring in fairly regularly and hopefully that way you'll get the chance to have a chat to the staff responsible for managing the list and register your situation and circumstances with them. I always think that's much more effective than simply being just another name on a waiting list.

Will do and thank you for this advice I will phone every 14 day's to see where on the list I am.

nashville 31-08-2016 14:28

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Originally Posted by denphone (Post 35856737)
My happiness today stems from my hospital visit where they are are happy with the wound healing process and all the figures they downloaded from the ICD.:)

Excellent News, so pleased for you Den ;)

joglynne 31-08-2016 16:42

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Originally Posted by heero_yuy (Post 35856883)
Good news. :tu:

Quoted yesterday for a £10K project for the late autumn and the PO from the client is on it's way! Should be a very merry Xmas.:)

:tu: Well done you.

heero_yuy 31-08-2016 19:25

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Originally Posted by joglynne (Post 35856959)
:tu: Well done you.

Thanks Jo and everybody. The only thing that lurks at the back of my mind is that if they jump at it, did I quote too low.:shrug:

Still I'm not greedy, it's a good price for relatively easy work. A happy client is one who'll come back again, perhaps when things are slow.

heero_yuy 01-09-2016 11:33

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Made three trips to the dump this morning, two for six large sacks of garden clippings, weeds and waste and then to dump an old dead spindryer and some other metal. Trying to de-clutter but it's going to take more trips yet.

nashville 01-09-2016 12:44

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Originally Posted by heero_yuy (Post 35857162)
Made three trips to the dump this morning, two for six large sacks of garden clippings, weeds and waste and then to dump an old dead spindryer and some other metal. Trying to de-clutter but it's going to take more trips yet.

Good start

Hugh 01-09-2016 21:10

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Just finished work, and not going back until the 20th.

Off to Boston on Sunday for a couple of days, then catch the ferry over to Provincetown in Cape Cod for two nights, then get the ferry back to Boston to catch the Amtrak to New Haven for a week, where we will explore Connecticut.

Looking forward to it very much.

TheDaddy 01-09-2016 21:29

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Originally Posted by Hugh (Post 35857301)
Just finished work, and not going back until the 20th.

Off to Boston on Sunday for a couple of days, then catch the ferry over to Provincetown in Cape Cod for two nights, then get the ferry back to Boston to catch the Amtrak to New Haven for a week, where we will explore Connecticut.

Looking forward to it very much.

Hope you enjoy it Hugh

Osem 02-09-2016 11:12

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Osem Jnr. was awarded an upper second in his degree so happy with that. Hopefully he'll carve himself out a rewarding career in primary education.

nashville 02-09-2016 14:41

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Originally Posted by Hugh (Post 35857301)
Just finished work, and not going back until the 20th.

Off to Boston on Sunday for a couple of days, then catch the ferry over to Provincetown in Cape Cod for two nights, then get the ferry back to Boston to catch the Amtrak to New Haven for a week, where we will explore Connecticut.

Looking forward to it very much.

Have a good time Hugh

heero_yuy 02-09-2016 15:21

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Originally Posted by Hugh (Post 35857301)
Just finished work, and not going back until the 20th.

Off to Boston on Sunday for a couple of days, then catch the ferry over to Provincetown in Cape Cod for two nights, then get the ferry back to Boston to catch the Amtrak to New Haven for a week, where we will explore Connecticut.

Looking forward to it very much.

Sounds like a good trip. Enjoy.

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Originally Posted by Osem (Post 35857341)
Osem Jnr. was awarded an upper second in his degree so happy with that. Hopefully he'll carve himself out a rewarding career in primary education.

Congratulations to the young man. :tu:

nashville 02-09-2016 16:45

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Well done Osem Jnr

Hugh 02-09-2016 17:14

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Originally Posted by Osem (Post 35857341)
Osem Jnr. was awarded an upper second in his degree so happy with that. Hopefully he'll carve himself out a rewarding career in primary education.

Well done to him, and to you for your support.

Osem 02-09-2016 18:01

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Originally Posted by heero_yuy (Post 35857394)
Sounds like a good trip. Enjoy.


Congratulations to the young man. :tu:

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Originally Posted by nashville (Post 35857413)
Well done Osem Jnr

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Originally Posted by Hugh (Post 35857415)
Well done to him, and to you for your support.

Thanks guys. :)

If he can control his burgeoning sports media activities I think he'll make a very fine teacher indeed. He has all the patience his mum was blessed with and I never had... :)

denphone 02-09-2016 18:26

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Originally Posted by Hugh (Post 35857301)
Just finished work, and not going back until the 20th.

Off to Boston on Sunday for a couple of days, then catch the ferry over to Provincetown in Cape Cod for two nights, then get the ferry back to Boston to catch the Amtrak to New Haven for a week, where we will explore Connecticut.

Looking forward to it very much.

l hope you have a nice time Hugh as my parents are off to America on early Saturday morning.:)

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Originally Posted by Osem (Post 35857341)
Osem Jnr. was awarded an upper second in his degree so happy with that. Hopefully he'll carve himself out a rewarding career in primary education.

You should be very proud of Osem Jnr as that is a wonderful achievement by him.:tu:

Osem 02-09-2016 18:46

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Originally Posted by denphone (Post 35857431)
l hope you have a nice time Hugh as my parents are off to America on early Saturday morning.:)

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You should be very proud of Osem Jnr as that is a wonderful achievement by him.:tu:

Thanks Den.

The real work starts now, however, he'll be working 4 days per week in a couple of local primary schools for the next year. :erm:

Having said that he's well used to dealing with difficult children not only through his existing training but though karate, especially since he became a Sensei a few years ago. He has a reputation for not tolerating any nonsense and soon manages to get the respect of those he trains. I suppose it's introducing him to and supporting him throughout his karate career which I feel most proud of as it's made him a fine young man in my rather biased opinion... :D

MalteseFalcon 02-09-2016 19:37

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So, a couple of things that I haven't been keeping you up to date with:

1. Hints dropped I'm staying beyond probation period.
2. Being trained in a specialist field, namely the kiosk in Waitrose/Morrisons stores (tobacco etc)
3. Eyesight has, despite getting worse, improved enough for me to learn to drive
4. Applied today for my provisional licence. I'm definitely nervous about this next step in life
5. Since speaking back to my manager, she has shown me lots more respect since. So all in all, a good week all round.

Hugh 03-09-2016 08:18

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Originally Posted by Hugh (Post 35857301)
Just finished work, and not going back until the 20th.

Off to Boston on Sunday for a couple of days, then catch the ferry over to Provincetown in Cape Cod for two nights, then get the ferry back to Boston to catch the Amtrak to New Haven for a week, where we will explore Connecticut.

Looking forward to it very much.

Just had an email from BA offering an upgrade to Premium Economy on the way out for £176 each, instead of £650 each - booked it!

weenie 03-09-2016 12:45

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Originally Posted by Osem (Post 35857341)
Osem Jnr. was awarded an upper second in his degree so happy with that. Hopefully he'll carve himself out a rewarding career in primary education.

Wonderful news Osem I'm sure he will go far in his chosen career path. You must be very proud and so you should be.

weenie 05-09-2016 12:33

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I'm so taken aback today at the kind thoughtful things people do. I received a card today from a dear friend who is also a minister saying that they have lit a candle for me at Pershore Abbey I was in tears at this kind and yet so simple gesture.

My happy thought is that it is truly amazing that such a simple kind gesture can mean so much :)

nashville 05-09-2016 18:38

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Originally Posted by weenie (Post 35857835)
I'm so taken aback today at the kind thoughtful things people do. I received a card today from a dear friend who is also a minister saying that they have lit a candle for me at Pershore Abbey I was in tears at this kind and yet so simple gesture.

My happy thought is that it is truly amazing that such a simple kind gesture can mean so much :)

I think that was a lovely thought Weenie

Osem 10-09-2016 16:09

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Had a nice relaxing week away on the edge of the New Forest in a lovely lodge with hot tub on the deck. I have to say it was worth it and used every day as was the indoor swimming pool. Had some nice days by the sea, caught up with some relatives and generally enjoyed watching Osem Jnr #2 loving every minute of it. It's good to be back home though... :)

nashville 10-09-2016 17:31

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Excellent news Osem ,Glad you had a lovely relaxing time.

denphone 10-09-2016 17:49

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Originally Posted by Osem (Post 35858577)
Had a nice relaxing week away on the edge of the New Forest in a lovely lodge with hot tub on the deck. I have to say it was worth it and used every day as was the indoor swimming pool. Had some nice days by the sea, caught up with some relatives and generally enjoyed watching Osem Jnr #2 loving every minute of it. It's good to be back home though... :)

l am glad you had a lovely time Osem with your family as we love the New Forest as we find it a magical place to visit when we are up that way.

Osem 11-09-2016 22:16

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Originally Posted by heero_yuy (Post 35851581)
Had a nice business lunch up at the local Toby carvery with the project leader and a German engineer over from Kassel on some work I'm doing for them. I opted for the carvery sandwich they do: Beef in a baguette and it comes with roasties, a jumbo Yorkie and a jug of gravy for just over 4 quid. Quite filling.:)

I reckon that's yet more evidence that Brexit isn't quite the doomsday scenario some folks liked to make out... :D

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Originally Posted by denphone (Post 35858586)
l am glad you had a lovely time Osem with your family as we love the New Forest as we find it a magical place to visit when we are up that way.

Thanks Den it was very nice and we weren't too far from the sea. Got loads of pictures and videos of Osem Jnr #2 frolicking in the surf and having fun in the hot tub to load onto his tablet as visual reminders for when he goes off to college next week. It'd have been nice to get some video of him/us in the beautiful swimming pool but such utterly deviant practices aren't allowed anymore sadly... :(

weenie 13-09-2016 11:14

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Originally Posted by Osem (Post 35858577)
Had a nice relaxing week away on the edge of the New Forest in a lovely lodge with hot tub on the deck. I have to say it was worth it and used every day as was the indoor swimming pool. Had some nice days by the sea, caught up with some relatives and generally enjoyed watching Osem Jnr #2 loving every minute of it. It's good to be back home though... :)


Another wonderful memory for you to cherish and look back on with fond memories Osem. I'm glad you all enjoyed your break :)

Osem 14-09-2016 19:21

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Originally Posted by weenie (Post 35858983)
Another wonderful memory for you to cherish and look back on with fond memories Osem. I'm glad you all enjoyed your break :)

:tu:

Yes fond memories they will be. :)

With Osem Jnr # 2 off to college next week it's really dawning on us that we're going to miss him so much. Today we took him to Herne Bay and had a lovely day by the sea. The weather was great and the sea as calm and clear as I've ever seen it. He really enjoyed being in the water again. I took lots of pics and video to look back on and to put on his tablet so he can do likewise while he's away from home every week.

Had to add a little picture of he and mum having fun in the sea. :)

joglynne 14-09-2016 19:43

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:tu:

Yes fond memories they will be. :)

With Osem Jnr # 2 off to college next week it's really dawning on us that we're going to miss him so much. Today we took him to Herne Bay and had a lovely day by the sea. The weather was great and the sea as calm and clear as I've ever seen it. He really enjoyed being in the water again. I took lots of pics and video to look back on and to put on his tablet so he can do likewise while he's away from home every week.

I believe that the measure of a good parent is that their children grow up with a zest for life safe in the knowledge that their parents will be there for them wherever they may be. Osem Jnr # 2 is so loved and you and your wife have given him a brilliant start.

Osem 14-09-2016 20:59

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I believe that the measure of a good parent is that their children grow up with a zest for life safe in the knowledge that their parents will be there for them wherever they may be. Osem Jnr # 2 is so loved and you and your wife have given him a brilliant start.

I so hope you're right Jo. :erm: We've just tried as best we can and I have to say his stepmum has never ceased loving him and trying her best to bring him on. For that I'll always be immensely grateful and I'd like to think he is too...

nashville 15-09-2016 10:00

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If you children are happy, it is a blessing,

heero_yuy 15-09-2016 13:20

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Gosh. Last time I went to Herne Bay was when we visited my great aunt Fred* and I was just a nipper. Glad you had a good time Osem.

*Called "Fred" by my uncle Robert (Yes, Bob's my uncle) because she said she never wanted to be called gran or granny so he said we'll just have to call you Fred and it stuck. Funnily she was also happy with it. :)

weenie 15-09-2016 14:26

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Originally Posted by joglynne (Post 35859204)
I believe that the measure of a good parent is that their children grow up with a zest for life safe in the knowledge that their parents will be there for them wherever they may be. Osem Jnr # 2 is so loved and you and your wife have given him a brilliant start.

Totally agree Jo

Osem 15-09-2016 14:27

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Gosh. Last time I went to Herne Bay was when we visited my great aunt Fred* and I was just a nipper. Glad you had a good time Osem.

*Called "Fred" by my uncle Robert (Yes, Bob's my uncle) because she said she never wanted to be called gran or granny so he said we'll just have to call you Fred and it stuck. Funnily she was also happy with it. :)

It's changed quite a bit over the years and quite a lot of money has been spent on the front. It's nice and clean and there's probably not enough excitement to attract the rowdier element. The other big bonus is that the average age down there makes me feel younger... :D

MalteseFalcon 15-09-2016 15:06

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Well, that's a great week over with. Thank the Lord, not getting bullied now until Sunday.

Osem 15-09-2016 17:33

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Osem Jnr. had his first day in his placement school today and thankfully it went very well. Luckily it's not too far from where we live and he met a few people he already knows as a result of his other educational experience and various sporting activities.

MalteseFalcon 15-09-2016 17:36

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That should make his transition a bit easier, knowing a few people already. Hope it goes well for him.

dilli-theclaw 15-09-2016 17:38

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Originally Posted by Osem (Post 35859320)
Osem Jnr. had his first day in his placement school today and thankfully it went very well. Luckily it's not too far from where we live and he met a few people he already knows as a result of his other educational experience and various sporting activities.

Sounds good :tu:

denphone 15-09-2016 18:22

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Originally Posted by Osem (Post 35859320)
Osem Jnr. had his first day in his placement school today and thankfully it went very well. Luckily it's not too far from where we live and he met a few people he already knows as a result of his other educational experience and various sporting activities.

l am glad things went well today for Osem Jnr today on his first day Osem.:tu:

Osem 15-09-2016 18:51

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Sounds good :tu:

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l am glad things went well today for Osem Jnr today on his first day Osem.:tu:

Thanks guys, it only seems like yesterday when I took him for his first day at school. The time sure has flown. :(

I hope things are improving for you both! :tu:

denphone 15-09-2016 19:13

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l saw my community cardiac nurse yesterday Osem and she is happy with the healing of the ICD wound but thinks my heart rate is beating too fast so she is going to have a conversation with the consultant about increasing the cardiac medication doses although because my blood pressure is quite low she is wary of increasing the doses because it might make my blood pressure even lower which can be very dangerous if it goes too low.

Osem 15-09-2016 19:21

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l saw my community cardiac nurse yesterday Osem and she is happy with the healing of the ICD wound but thinks my heart rate is beating too fast so she is going to have a conversation with the consultant about increasing the cardiac medication doses although because my blood pressure is quite low she is wary of increasing the doses because it might make my blood pressure even lower which can be very dangerous if it goes too low.

Sympathies Den. I hope you get it all sorted ASAP.

TheDaddy 15-09-2016 22:40

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Originally Posted by denphone (Post 35859333)
l saw my community cardiac nurse yesterday Osem and she is happy with the healing of the ICD wound but thinks my heart rate is beating too fast so she is going to have a conversation with the consultant about increasing the cardiac medication doses although because my blood pressure is quite low she is wary of increasing the doses because it might make my blood pressure even lower which can be very dangerous if it goes too low.

Hope they can sort that without to much trouble

MalteseFalcon 16-09-2016 23:50

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Today's shift was the first one for weeks that I actually enjoyed. It's a shame that it is with a manager who runs jobs that involves lots of travelling and staying away from home. But the time flew by today, which I think it should if you have a decent manager to work for.

weenie 17-09-2016 13:00

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Originally Posted by Osem (Post 35859320)
Osem Jnr. had his first day in his placement school today and thankfully it went very well. Luckily it's not too far from where we live and he met a few people he already knows as a result of his other educational experience and various sporting activities.

:)

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Originally Posted by denphone (Post 35859333)
l saw my community cardiac nurse yesterday Osem and she is happy with the healing of the ICD wound but thinks my heart rate is beating too fast so she is going to have a conversation with the consultant about increasing the cardiac medication doses although because my blood pressure is quite low she is wary of increasing the doses because it might make my blood pressure even lower which can be very dangerous if it goes too low.

Take care den and I hope and pray that they get it sorted out for you soon.

MalteseFalcon 21-09-2016 09:57

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Happy thought tinged with a moan. The inevitable happened yesterday, me and my manager had a screaming match with each other in the office car park. I've still got my job, which is the happy thought, but the moan is me losing my temper like that in front of her and my other co workers. Also, that it also probably means she will never let me work with her again after that.

weenie 21-09-2016 11:00

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Mark I'm pleased that you still have your job but please in the future remember you can always walk away from a argument/screaming match, while some might see this as being weak I like to see it as another option :) another thing is it never looks good for a man to shout at a woman IMO.

Hugh 21-09-2016 11:40

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Originally Posted by MarkC1984 (Post 35859916)
Happy thought tinged with a moan. The inevitable happened yesterday, me and my manager had a screaming match with each other in the office car park. I've still got my job, which is the happy thought, but the moan is me losing my temper like that in front of her and my other co workers. Also, that it also probably means she will never let me work with her again after that.

Mark, it could be seen that you are confusing personal (you asked her out, she refused) with work; it is inappropriate, in any workplace, to resort to raised voices - if from a manager, this could be seen as harassment or bullying, if from you, insubordination.

Can I advise that, in the future, if this sort of situation arises, you just say 'I'm sorry, but I need some time out to think about this, as you are upsetting me' and then leave the area.

MalteseFalcon 22-09-2016 01:35

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We both said things that can't be taken back, I was fully expecting to be shifted to another job but wasn't. However she spoke to me three times today and the rest of the time blanked me, despite me trying to make amends and buying her a latter from Costa.

dilli-theclaw 22-09-2016 16:17

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I finally got my therapy appointment for next Thursday I hope it's worth it!

denphone 22-09-2016 16:34

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That is excellent news dilli and l hope the appointment goes well for you.

Osem 22-09-2016 21:05

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I finally got my therapy appointment for next Thursday I hope it's worth it!

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That is excellent news dilli and l hope the appointment goes well for you.

Yes hope it all goes well for both of you!

Osem Jnr. took his first maths class yesterday and it went very well according to his class tutor apparently. Osem Jnr # 2 is coming home from college on Friday and having never been away from us for this long before, he's going to get one hell of a welcome. :)

SnoopZ 23-09-2016 15:47

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Just finished a 10 day shift now looking forward to 2 days off before it all starts again!

nashville 23-09-2016 15:52

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Have a rest Snoop or better still go out and enjoy yourself

SnoopZ 23-09-2016 16:17

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Have a rest Snoop or better still go out and enjoy yourself

Jobs to be done like do the garden(jungle) and clean the house first, luckily i did the garden after work though.

heero_yuy 23-09-2016 18:03

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Jobs to be done like do the garden(jungle) and clean the house first, luckily i did the garden after work though.

http://www.cableforum.co.uk/board/at...0&d=1459841905

:D

Damien 24-09-2016 09:25

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Paid off Student Loan :drunk:

Osem 24-09-2016 09:50

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Paid off Student Loan :drunk:

Well done. Did you do so earlier than you needed to?

I'm assuming you didn't get into further significant debt as a result of the celebrations... ;)

denphone 24-09-2016 09:52

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Paid off Student Loan :drunk:

That is definitely a thing to celebrate.:tu:

Osem 24-09-2016 09:52

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Osem Jnr # 2 is home from college and he hasn't forgotten us after all. :)

Damien 24-09-2016 10:07

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Originally Posted by Osem (Post 35860301)
Well done. Did you do so earlier than you needed to?

Not too much. Just a final payment to get rid. Because PAYE deductions are pre-tax it's better not to pay it off too early.

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I'm assuming you didn't get into further significant debt as a result of the celebrations... ;)
Not yet :D

Hugh 24-09-2016 10:15

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Paid off Student Loan :drunk:

Congratulations.

Osem 24-09-2016 10:23

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Originally Posted by Damien (Post 35860306)
Not too much. Just a final payment to get rid. Because PAYE deductions are pre-tax it's better not to pay it off too early.



Not yet :D

The reason I'm asking is Osem Jnr, who's still accruing his debt. Aside from a mortgage I've avoided debt like the plague but times have changed so I'm just wondering what the form is re paying this stuff off.

Presumably student loans are taken into account by lenders and will affect the amount you can borrow for a mortgage?

Damien 24-09-2016 11:44

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Originally Posted by Osem (Post 35860311)
The reason I'm asking is Osem Jnr, who's still accruing his debt. Aside from a mortgage I've avoided debt like the plague but times have changed so I'm just wondering what the form is re paying this stuff off.

Presumably student loans are taken into account by lenders and will affect the amount you can borrow for a mortgage?

ah ok.

Well I went before they increased the fees and changed the way you pay it back. He will have more debt and I believe they increased the interest rate as well.

However they also pay less per salary band than I did and the debt gets wiped out after 30 years I think. So a lot of people will never pay back the whole amount before it gets wiped. It's better to think of it as an additional tax rather than a debt.

As for mortgages etc. It's only considered in the sense you get less take home pay available for a mortgage. It won't appear in a credit check and it isn't considered a debt in the same way a car loan would be. You don't get debt collectors and so on.

Don't worry about this in the same way you would worry about other debt.

There was a good post from the money saving expert about this, I'll see if I can find it.

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Here ya go: http://www.moneysavingexpert.com/stu...n-fees-changes

nashville 24-09-2016 12:42

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Just received my new suite ( which I was dreading as I thought i made a bad choice). But when it arrived it is beautiful, I am so relieved and happy,

denphone 24-09-2016 12:45

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So glad that you are happy with your large purchase nash.

heero_yuy 24-09-2016 13:04

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Originally Posted by nashville (Post 35860332)
Just received my new suite ( which I was dreading as I thought i made a bad choice). But when it arrived it is beautiful, I am so relieved and happy,

Glad it exceeded your expectations Nash. :)

weenie 24-09-2016 13:20

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Originally Posted by Damien (Post 35860299)
Paid off Student Loan :drunk:

:)

Osem 24-09-2016 15:13

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Originally Posted by nashville (Post 35860332)
Just received my new suite ( which I was dreading as I thought i made a bad choice). But when it arrived it is beautiful, I am so relieved and happy,

Good for you! :tu:

We had similar doubts after I ordered our 2 8ft leather sofas and I realised that'd it'd take structural alterations to get them in the house but now they're in situ we love them. :)

nashville 24-09-2016 15:45

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Thanks everyone. Just need to buy a new rug, to match, as we have wooden floors,


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