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Bex
28-12-2003, 21:00
it's got to that time of year again when one year is nearly over and a new one is about to start...so as per the poll do you make new years resolutions and if so, detail in the thread any you are willing to share with us

Happy new year everyone

edit: :bigcry: the poll didnt work...could one of the admins please add the poll with options of

yes...please specifie in thread
nope.....i never keep to them
nope..just couse
my resolution is to not make resolutions

ta boys

Dave Stones
28-12-2003, 21:17
yes i aim not to be single again by the end of the year... far fetched i know..

Bex
28-12-2003, 21:19
yes i aim not to be single again by the end of the year... far fetched i know..

that was mine for a while...... but this year i realised being single isn't all that bad, and it gives me time to sort my head out and spend time with my mates :D

my n.y.resolutions are:
cut down and then quit the cigs
spend lots more time with friends
have some "me" time
go on a lovely holiday
and most of all have some fun :p
and lose weight

Dave Stones
28-12-2003, 21:22
lol well ive been single just over a year now and i am bored of it...

i dont really have any other resolutions... it seems my life has all fallen into place at uni.. hurrah :D

kronas
28-12-2003, 21:23
yes i aim not to be single again by the end of the year... far fetched i know..


funny you should menton that mine would be to get one but i know thats not going to happen...... oh well i can continue to dream :rolleyes: :zzz:

Marge
28-12-2003, 21:26
My resolutions for 2004 are to have fun fun and even more fun, get back to going to the gym and have a brill girlie holiday with my mate.

Bex
28-12-2003, 21:27
boys boys boys <shakes her head>

you will both find someone :D

sometimes the more we look for a gf/bf the less likely we are to find someone, someone will turn up when you least expect it, in my experience........
just be yourself have a laugh and enjoy life
<lecture over? :p:p:p:p:p:p

Bex
28-12-2003, 21:27
My resolutions for 2004 are to have fun fun and even more fun, get back to going to the gym and have a brill girlie holiday with my mate.

debs your a girl after my own heart :D :tu:

have fun who needs men anyway ;):p

Marge
28-12-2003, 21:30
I don't really have any bad habits to give up, bit of a goody two shoes, well maybe one or two :naughty: so perhaps this is the year where I become a bad girl

Bex
28-12-2003, 21:34
I don't really have any bad habits to give up, bit of a goody two shoes, well maybe one or two :naughty: so perhaps this is the year where I become a bad girl

:tu: good for you....bad girls have fun.....but just be careful :D

kink
28-12-2003, 21:37
I stopped making them quite a few years ago..... most of the time people seem to set incredibly high standards for themselves.... and then are bitterly disappointed when they fail to achieve them.... get more upset and bitter about themselves and their inability to do anything right.... and down the spiral we go :shrug:

On the positive side.... if the aims are realistic and plausable.... then it can be an incredible boost to one's self esteem when they're attained :)

Just remember not to aim to high unless you have a parachute.... or have wings ;)

Well.... there are a few angels out there ;)

I....... being demon spawn..... am not trying to fly :D

Good luck to all and if you fail, try again, the year doesn't really end on the 31st Dec.... it continues.


..... and just in case..... local counselling services are not as bad as some people say ;)

kronas
28-12-2003, 21:49
I stopped making them quite a few years ago..... most of the time people seem to set incredibly high standards for themselves.... and then are bitterly disappointed when they fail to achieve them.... get more upset and bitter about themselves and their inability to do anything right.... and down the spiral we go :shrug:

very true i too dont bother with them really but we can all say to ourselves lets try and achieve this, this time around



On the positive side.... if the aims are realistic and plausable.... then it can be an incredible boost to one's self esteem when they're attained :)


sure can be...........



Just remember not to aim to high unless you have a parachute.... or have wings ;)


i think i have worn mine out i have tryed and failed so many times :rolleyes:


Well.... there are a few angels out there ;)


you being one ofcourse :p


I....... being demon spawn..... am not trying to fly :D


i dont see you in that 'light' i dont think you are :)



Good luck to all and if you fail, try again, the year doesn't really end on the 31st Dec.... it continues.


yep........


..... and just in case..... local counselling services are not as bad as some people say ;)

:erm: :disturbd:

evilind
28-12-2003, 22:17
I like debsy42's answer. I think all the girlies on here should go out and away for hols. It'd be wicked - and maybe we would be too! Thats why I want to be an evilind this year...cooped up with same bloke for nearly nine years and now I have escaped!!! Dont know where to mind... :wavey:

Dave Stones
28-12-2003, 22:37
boys boys boys <shakes her head>

you will both find someone :D

sometimes the more we look for a gf/bf the less likely we are to find someone, someone will turn up when you least expect it, in my experience........
just be yourself have a laugh and enjoy life
<lecture over? :p:p:p:p:p:p

i never said i was looking... :p

from reading other posts did you stick your tongue in and out 6 times? you'd look like a lizard :erm: :eek:

oh a proper new years resolution is try to sort out my sleeping pattern. over the course of the last month it has been completely decimated, i find i am lucky if i get 5 hours sleep a night now. :mad:

or have wings

*remembers to buy some red bull just in case...

homealone
28-12-2003, 23:01
i never said i was looking... :p

from reading other posts did you stick your tongue in and out 6 times? you'd look like a lizard :erm: :eek:

oh a proper new years resolution is try to sort out my sleeping pattern. over the course of the last month it has been completely decimated, i find i am lucky if i get 5 hours sleep a night now. :mad:



*remembers to buy some red bull just in case...

Dave Stones
28-12-2003, 23:03
wow, i get quoted with no comment, as if to reinforce my point

*whoo*

ic14
28-12-2003, 23:19
I have 3 resolutions
1: Lose some damn weight!!
2: Learn how to drive
3: Not to be single this time next year

1 and 3 are the most unlikely........

*edit* oh and not really a resolution but
4: somehow go to Japan for a holiday :D

Bex
29-12-2003, 00:03
<snip snip snip>=from reading other posts did you stick your tongue in and out 6 times? you'd look like a lizard :erm: :eek:

nope i just stuck my tongue out once but for a long time ;):p

as for sleeping patterns...my insomnia seems to have reared its ugly head again :( too much on my mind i guess :cry:

I have 3 resolutions
1: Lose some damn weight!!
2: Learn how to drive
3: Not to be single this time next year

1 and 3 are the most unlikely........


ic not a good attitude to start with.....be determined, be stubborn and losing weight, don't go on a fad diets, change your diet and eat more healthily and exercise more (bexy takes her own advice :erm: )

Proppinupthebar
29-12-2003, 00:26
Look after this monster, walk her a little further than I do at the moment.

Nor
29-12-2003, 00:30
Get my finger out and start making some money is mine I reckon.

luftys
29-12-2003, 11:33
Find a nice Girl and have some fun :naughty:

But a bad girl would be better or 2 or 3 :naughty: :naughty:

Russ
29-12-2003, 11:48
Get my finger out

Of what? On second thoughts, don't answer that....

Marge
29-12-2003, 12:03
Find a nice Girl and have some fun :naughty:

But a bad girl would be better or 2 or 3 :naughty: :naughty:

See Post 9 :naughty:

Chimaera
29-12-2003, 12:44
3 resolutions.

1 Give up men.
2 Give up men.
3 Give up men.

Should have no problem with that one then! :D

Colin
29-12-2003, 15:08
I'd like to give up smoking, but not as a resolution, just don't think i would do it.

Thought about the whole g.friend thing. been single for 6 months after a 2 yr relationship, but still wondering if i can be arsed.

Keep up with uni work, and make my flatmate clean more often (smelly little bleeder)

See more gigs.

Sounds a bit selfish, but care more about me than other people

col

Bexy, Dave Stones

I bet everyone has been telling you there own little titbits about sleep so here we go.
I had big problems with sleep, became like a vampire, sleep all day, up all night. Went to Doctor advise as follows:
Drink less cafine
Smoke less before bed
No reading in bed (didn't keep up with that one :shrug: )
Have a shower before bed
force yourself up even when you don't have to get up

Well there we go, worked for me, feel great now.

kink
29-12-2003, 15:19
[Snippity snipped].....

Bexy, Dave Stones

I bet everyone has been telling you there own little titbits about sleep so here we go.
I had big problems with sleep, became like a vampire, sleep all day, up all night. Went to Doctor advise as follows:
Drink less cafine
Smoke less before bed
No reading in bed (didn't keep up with that one :shrug: )
Have a shower before bed
force yourself up even when you don't have to get up

Well there we go, worked for me, feel great now.
Apparently.... sitting in front of a PC up to an hour before trying to go to sleep is a bad idea too.... stimulates the brain :erm:

Doesn't affect me though..... Mmmmm... wonder if there's a connection ;)

Sociable
29-12-2003, 15:41
1. Listen to my own advice more.

2. Laugh every day even if I'm sad and help others to do likewise.

3. Remember the next 50 years can be even better than the first.

(About to start my second half century in a few weeks) lol

MadGamer
29-12-2003, 15:46
Apparently.... sitting in front of a PC up to an hour before trying to go to sleep is a bad idea too.... stimulates the brain :erm:

Doesn't affect me though..... Mmmmm... wonder if there's a connection ;) So i should get out of the habit of using broadband 24hrs a day. :D

Paul
29-12-2003, 16:08
Resolution: Become a millionaire.

I'm expecting this resolution to suffer the same fate as most of my others over the years. :D

Russ
29-12-2003, 16:09
If my God wants me to follow a certain path in 2004, He'll let me know :)

Bex
29-12-2003, 16:38
I'd like to give up smoking, but not as a resolution, just don't think i would do it.

Thought about the whole g.friend thing. been single for 6 months after a 2 yr relationship, but still wondering if i can be arsed.

Keep up with uni work, and make my flatmate clean more often (smelly little bleeder)

See more gigs.

Sounds a bit selfish, but care more about me than other people

col

Bexy, Dave Stones

I bet everyone has been telling you there own little titbits about sleep so here we go.
I had big problems with sleep, became like a vampire, sleep all day, up all night. Went to Doctor advise as follows:
Drink less cafine
Smoke less before bed
No reading in bed (didn't keep up with that one :shrug: )
Have a shower before bed
force yourself up even when you don't have to get up

Well there we go, worked for me, feel great now.

good on ya col for attempting to give up smoking, someone sent me a pm agaes ago about it, if i can find it then will forward it you

with reagrds to the sleep thing........i have given up caffine (for other medical reasons)......i will cut down on the smokes.....no reading in bed......i would never sleep if i didn't do that......showers wake me up so thats a no go and getting up, i think that i would agree...think i mucked my sleeping pattern up over the christmas period..it only took two days but that's all it takes...going to try for an early night tonight, because i am suddenly knackered :(

Ramrod
29-12-2003, 16:46
Do more exersise/taiji.
Be a better husband/father (you can always improve :) )

Bex
30-12-2003, 18:17
3 resolutions.

1 Give up men.
2 Give up men.
3 Give up men.

Should have no problem with that one then! :D

oh dear sounds like someone is having men problems......personally i say i am giving up men every month or so :erm:....can't live with them, can't live without them :(

Stuart
30-12-2003, 20:54
3 resolutions.

1 Give up men.
2 Give up men.
3 Give up men.

Should have no problem with that one then! :D
Chi, some men aren't bad...

My resolutions are:

1) Lose weight
2) Swim regularly
3) Learn to type.

Chimaera
30-12-2003, 21:15
Chi, some men aren't bad...

My resolutions are:

1) Lose weight
2) Swim regularly
3) Learn to type.
Which ones aren't bad then Stu??

Perhaps I'll just give up the bad ones then! ;)

Stuart
30-12-2003, 21:27
Which ones aren't bad then Stu??

Perhaps I'll just give up the bad ones then! ;)
Me for one...

Mind you, as they say, some men are bast****

Ramrod
30-12-2003, 21:28
Which ones aren't bad then Stu??


We arn't all bad! :shrug:
:sorry:

kronas
31-12-2003, 07:05
We arn't all bad! :shrug:
:sorry:


most are........... the fact that a new year resolution to give up men wont actually work for most people............its quite amusing to say it :)

luftys
31-12-2003, 23:47
Iam going to have Fun Fun Fun,and let the kids look after them self :rofl:
Just had my first drink in 2 years :beer: Bottle of Whisky :D

Maggy
01-01-2004, 00:05
I never bother.It's pointless as I never keep them.


Incog. :)

Bex
01-01-2004, 13:24
Iam going to have Fun Fun Fun,and let the kids look after them self :rofl:
Just had my first drink in 2 years :beer: Bottle of Whisky :D

ok it's new year so i might as well say it DAD :mad: your kids do look after themselves......and you shouldn't be drinking :(
and chimmy.......not all men are bad some are wonderful (although they can be tits at times :p )

DrAwesome
01-01-2004, 13:34
Woman on here cant give up men
who would/will pamper you, massage your feet when their tired, send you flowers & chocolates, wash your back in the shower/bath, gaze into your eyes on valentines day and tell you that your loved & wanted?





My New Years Resolution is 1024x768

Sociable
01-01-2004, 13:40
Iam going to have Fun Fun Fun,and let the kids look after them self :rofl:
Just had my first drink in 2 years :beer: Bottle of Whisky :D

Ahhhh this explains a lot ;)

Hope you had a great night and will have a word with bexy so she knows to breath quietly till the hangover clears. LOL

Bex
01-01-2004, 13:42
Woman on here cant give up men
who would/will pamper you, send you flowers & chocolates, wash your back in the shower/bath, gaze into your eyes on valentines day and tell you that your loved & wanted?

:eeek: men do that? boy i have been dating the wrong ones ;) :p

but seriously i don't want to and won't give up men, they aren't perfect but some are special :D

Ahhhh this explains a lot

Hope you had a great night and will have a word with bexy so she knows to breath quietly till the hangover clears. LOL

he hasn't got a hangover....:p

explains a lot what do you mean young man?

edit: and infact daddy is cooking me a nice big fry up :D....i paid for the ingredients he cooks it ;)

Stuart W
01-01-2004, 13:44
I am sticking to the resolution I made in 1977.

That was not to make any more!

Sociable
01-01-2004, 13:49
he hasn't got a hangover....:p

explains a lot what do you mean young man?

edit: and infact daddy is cooking me a nice big fry up :D....i paid for the ingredients he cooks it ;)

Fry up???

Ahh....... so it's an overhang not hangover I see now. :)

Sidesteps other question not wishing to go where angels fear to tread. LOL

dilli-theclaw
01-01-2004, 13:55
My new years resoloutions :-

Spend more time with My boy
Get a better job
Have another kid (Or at least plenty of practise)
Ease back on my computer use

Bex
01-01-2004, 14:07
Ease back on my computer use

yeah i was thinking that too....have near 2000 posts on here in 6months :erm:

luftys
01-01-2004, 14:23
Ahhhh this explains a lot ;)

Hope you had a great night and will have a word with bexy so she knows to breath quietly till the hangover clears. LOL
I am one of the lucky ones,never get a Hangover :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

How can a nice man like me have a daughter like bex :confused:

Bex
01-01-2004, 14:27
I am one of the lucky ones,never get a Hangover :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

How can a nice man like me have a daughter like bex :confused:

excuse me father dearest, but i do not have a hangover....and i only do when i get totally trollyed :p

DrAwesome
01-01-2004, 14:27
How can a nice man like me have a daughter like bex :confused:

Daddys lil girl eh? :)

Bex
01-01-2004, 14:33
Daddys lil girl eh? :)

i luv my daddy....... :angel:

Florence
01-01-2004, 17:03
Woman on here cant give up men
who would/will pamper you, massage your feet when their tired, send you flowers & chocolates, wash your back in the shower/bath, gaze into your eyes on valentines day and tell you that your loved & wanted?





My New Years Resolution is 1024x768

Well when I get all those things I will decide.

My resolution is to be more independant and go place when the rest say they don't want to go. Also if they are going and I don't stay at home.

Atomic22
01-01-2004, 17:28
to try and keep more healthy food in the fridge instead of carlsberg and breezers

Bifta
01-01-2004, 17:59
My new years resolution is to learn to procrastinate more efficiently.

Sociable
01-01-2004, 18:04
My new years resolution is to learn to procrastinate more efficiently.

No probs Bifta just sing along to this it always helps me:


Busy Doing Nothing

We're busy doing nothing
Working the whole day through
Trying to find lots of things not to do.
We're busy going nowhere,
Isn't it just a crime?
We'd like to be unhappy but...
We never do have the time.

I have to watch the river,
To see that it doesn't stop.
Then stick around the rosebuds,
So they'll know when to pop.
Better keep the crickets cheerful,
They're really a solemn bunch.
Hustle, bustle, and only an hour for lunch.

(Repeat opening verse)

I have to wake the sun up,
He's liable to sleep all day.
And then inspect the rainbows,
So they'll be bright and gay.
You must rehearse the songbirds,
To see that they sing in key.
Hustle, bustle, and never a moment free.

(Repeat verse)

I have to meet a turtle,
I'm teaching him how to swim.
Then I have to shine the dewdrops,
You know they're looking rather dim.
I told my friend the robin
I'd buy him a brand new vest.
Hustle, bustle, we never do have,
we never do have, we never do, never do, never do, never do,
Never do have the time,
Never do have the time.
(Please note that the opening verse,
and each repetition of it,
is preceded by a long string of la, la, las.)

Johnny Burke, Jimmy Van Heusen.

Bifta
01-01-2004, 18:07
No probs Bifta just sing along to this it always helps me:


All I need to be is more convincing when I say "No, I'm really busy ..."

DrAwesome
01-01-2004, 18:26
Well when I get all those things I will decide.


that sounds like an ultimatum :)

you must be worthy in someones eyes to recieve "all those things" and they will/should come automatically. :)


I wonder just how many people stick to their New Year resolution(s)? cant be that many as many people make the same NY resolutions each year.

yesman
01-01-2004, 19:02
I must put my mind to giving up the fags :mad:

Smokers Told 'Give Up Or Clog Up'
As thousands vow to stop smoking in 2004, new figures show that one in five people in Britain will die from the effects of lighting up.Now shock tactics are being used to help ex-smokers stick to their New Year resolutions - in the form of a graphic television campaign.The British Heart Foundation is targeting long term smokers, telling them to give up before they clog up.

The organisation says just three cigarettes a day can double a person's risk of a heart attack - one smoker dies every five minutes.

But it has been the cancer risk that has received the most publicity recently, so the BHF is adding its weight to campaigns to stop people smoking.

And a new exercise programme designed specifically for smokers has been launched in a bid to help them kick the habit for good.

Charity QUIT has joined forces with doctors and fitness instructor Jamie Baird, whose celebrity clients include Donna Air and Kate Beckinsale, to produce the tailor-made plan.



Before its too late.

Maggy
01-01-2004, 20:08
that sounds like an ultimatum :)

you must be worthy in someones eyes to recieve "all those things" and they will/should come automatically. :)


I wonder just how many people stick to their New Year resolution(s)? cant be that many as many people make the same NY resolutions each year.


I always stick to mine.I resolve every year NEVER to make any.

Incog. :tu:

Bex
01-01-2004, 20:13
that sounds like an ultimatum :)

you must be worthy in someones eyes to recieve "all those things" and they will/should come automatically. :)


I wonder just how many people stick to their New Year resolution(s)? cant be that many as many people make the same NY resolutions each year.

i have just decided that i am going to change my NY resolutions......
simply it is going to be have a more postive out look on life
and don't let the beggers get me down

:D

Sociable
01-01-2004, 20:30
i have just decided that i am going to change my NY resolutions......
simply it is going to be have a more postive out look on life
and don't let the beggers get me down

:D

Or as my old Dad always used to say. "nil illigitium carborundum".

And if that fails just remember "Amour Vincit InsOmnia".

Bex
01-01-2004, 21:14
Or as my old Dad always used to say. "nil illigitium carborundum".

And if that fails just remember "Amour Vincit InsOmnia".

could we please have the translated version? some of us aren't latin speakers :p

Neil
01-01-2004, 21:15
it's got to that time of year again when one year is nearly over and a new one is about to start...so as per the poll do you make new years resolutions and if so, detail in the thread any you are willing to share with us

Happy new year everyone

edit: :bigcry: the poll didnt work...could one of the admins please add the poll with options of

yes...please specifie in thread
nope.....i never keep to them
nope..just couse
my resolution is to not make resolutions

ta boys

Well.....

I've given up smoking! :eek:
I'm using patches at the moment, & (so far) I haven't felt the need for a ciggie. :)

Apart from the obvious health reasons (I also have asthma :rolleyes: :blush: ) it is costing a bloody fortune...:afire:

So....no ciggies today, & I actually don't feel the want for one either. :tu:

Wish me luck (I think I'm gonna need it!) :D

N.

Bex
01-01-2004, 21:17
Well.....

I've given up smoking! :eek:
I'm using patches at the moment, & (so far) I haven't felt the need for a ciggie. :)

Apart from the obvious health reasons (I also have asthma :rolleyes: :blush: ) it is costing a bloody fortune...:afire:

So....no ciggies today, & I actually don't feel the want for one either. :tu:

Wish me luck (I think I'm gonna need it!) :D

N.

good luck mate......the cravings won't hit you hard until about 4/6weeks...then it gets difficult (i found)
and anyway you smoke pouncy maloboro lights...so really your not used to nicotine ;):p
also neil when you get the urge to smoke it is prolly just the habit of having something in your mouth....suck on a lolly that helps to curb it (no rude comments from the boys please) and yes i know what im talking about i gave up for a year and a half

nb i am just jesting with neil am not really insulting M/lights

Sociable
01-01-2004, 21:19
"Don't let the bas**rds grind you down" and "Love Conquers sleeplessness".

(not just "All" as in the original saying using "Omnia") :)

Bex
01-01-2004, 21:20
Don't let the bas**rds grind you down and "Love Conquers sleeplessness".

(not just "All" as in the original saying using "Omnia") :)

ohhh i like that....remind me of that in a few weeks so i can change my sig to it :p

DrAwesome
02-01-2004, 00:29
If my God wants me to follow a certain path in 2004, He'll let me know :)

I guess your keeping a look out for the burning bush

You are unlikely to see a burning bush, but you know the eternal fire of the Holy Spirit is present all around you, and within you.

Marge
02-01-2004, 00:39
I guess your keeping a look out for the burning bush

You are unlikely to see a burning bush, but you know the eternal fire of the Holy Spirit is present all around you, and within you.

Pity it didn't help me with my lightbulb before :erm:

Seriously though nice thought :tu:

DrAwesome
02-01-2004, 00:42
Pity it didn't help me with my lightbulb before :erm:

Seriously though nice thought :tu:

you could have done with the assistance of a handyman :D

Marge
02-01-2004, 01:01
you could have done with the assistance of a handyman :D

If I had fell off the drawers I'd have needed a Dr :naughty:

Stuart
02-01-2004, 01:06
Pity it didn't help me with my lightbulb before :erm:

Seriously though nice thought :tu:
The burning bush would have at least given you light....

N/B No offence intended to anyone of a religious persuasion...

DrAwesome
02-01-2004, 01:13
If I had fell off the drawers I'd have needed a Dr :naughty:

That would come under my New Years wish to assist not my new years resolution :)

Nor
02-01-2004, 01:16
Good luck with giving up smoking Neil. Must be tough breaking the habit more than anything.

Marge
02-01-2004, 01:16
If I had fell off the drawers I'd have needed a Dr :naughty:

Glad I got that sentence the right way round :erm: could have proved embarassing

New Years Resolution to self, double check posts

and to go to bed early when in work next day :cry:

DrAwesome
02-01-2004, 01:18
Glad I got that sentence the right way round :erm: could have proved embarassing

New Years Resolution to self, double check posts

I guess it could be a bit embarrassing if you were to fall out of your draws :rofl:

Marge
02-01-2004, 01:24
Drawers are secure and back in their correct place