Angelus
13-08-2005, 13:04
Dear @@@
I am writing in response to your letter dater 8th August 2005 in regards to ###'s Application for defined access and parental responsibility.
I have been advised by a solicitor to write and inform you of why I am refusing to give consent to this
As I informed you before, the reason I stopped ###s visits was because I found him to driving without a license with %%% in the car. When I confronted him about this I was physically assaulted by ###.
Since I last wrote to you I have been informed by ###s mothers ex partner ??? that ### had taken %%% on the Monday to Tamworth to see his Father.
I have done some research of my own and once the court hears of his reckless endangerment the best he can hope for is supervised contact and even this I will fight against.
Further more I would also bring into question your clientââ‚Ã⠀šÃ‚¬ÃƒÂ¢Ã¢â‚¬Å¾Ã‚¢s character. This is someone I see as not being a good influence on %%%.
He has paid nothing towards %%%s up keep and has proven himself to be of an aggressive nature. I know of at least 4 companies he Owes sums of money to and has a number of CCJ against his name. He has also been sacked from other jobs and ??? (###s moms ex) has also told me ### has stolen from him. This is not someone of reputable character.
The fact is Unmarried fathers have no legal rights it is a hard process for a decent father to see his children let alone someone as undesirable as ### It is my decision that ### is someone who will not benefit in %%%s life in anyway
%%%s full name is now %%% Changed by Deed poll
She sees my husband as her Daddy and knows not who ### is. The courts will do whist is in %%%s best interest. Which is not to take %%% away from the family who loves and supports her. Not to cause her upset or confusion by taking her from her Daddy and giving her to a stranger.
If ### loved her as much as he claims he would have never put her life in danger.
I would also like you to refrain from using my works address for correspondence. If you continue to do so I shall be forced to resign and seek employment elsewhere.
I will issue with my solicitors details once attained
Regards
$$$
A few points I would like to add are:
I never drove my car with %%% in there on my own. My Mother a driver of 8 years was always with me.
She accussed me of assaulting her and had me arrested for it. The police arrested me and I went to the station to give a statement. The police released me as she had no proof I had done it. No caution or bail conditions.
Regards me driving to Tamworth my Dad has always met me at the train station in Tamworth and always dropped me off there.
She said I am abusive but one day after this letter was sent it was her husband that come around to my house and got himself arrested on the charge of Bulgalary and assault
I have paid towards %%%. I am currently ON JSA and I have contacted the CSA about this. It is the CSA who has taken a few months to get this sorted and I am now paying for %%% out of my JSA
If I had been sacked for theft why was the police never involved.
And in regards to me stealing from my moms ex. I gave him the money for a online game and used his card. The following month it cames out again but I had forgotten to cancel it. He got his statement and accused me of stealing from him. I did pay him back for that month to.
The courts will look whats at best interest for %%% and let her see her real Dad
Also notice how she Wrote the letter to @@@. My solicitors name is ~~~. @@@ is my Solicitors secretary.
[Edit Rob C: Names of all parties deleted]
I am writing in response to your letter dater 8th August 2005 in regards to ###'s Application for defined access and parental responsibility.
I have been advised by a solicitor to write and inform you of why I am refusing to give consent to this
As I informed you before, the reason I stopped ###s visits was because I found him to driving without a license with %%% in the car. When I confronted him about this I was physically assaulted by ###.
Since I last wrote to you I have been informed by ###s mothers ex partner ??? that ### had taken %%% on the Monday to Tamworth to see his Father.
I have done some research of my own and once the court hears of his reckless endangerment the best he can hope for is supervised contact and even this I will fight against.
Further more I would also bring into question your clientââ‚Ã⠀šÃ‚¬ÃƒÂ¢Ã¢â‚¬Å¾Ã‚¢s character. This is someone I see as not being a good influence on %%%.
He has paid nothing towards %%%s up keep and has proven himself to be of an aggressive nature. I know of at least 4 companies he Owes sums of money to and has a number of CCJ against his name. He has also been sacked from other jobs and ??? (###s moms ex) has also told me ### has stolen from him. This is not someone of reputable character.
The fact is Unmarried fathers have no legal rights it is a hard process for a decent father to see his children let alone someone as undesirable as ### It is my decision that ### is someone who will not benefit in %%%s life in anyway
%%%s full name is now %%% Changed by Deed poll
She sees my husband as her Daddy and knows not who ### is. The courts will do whist is in %%%s best interest. Which is not to take %%% away from the family who loves and supports her. Not to cause her upset or confusion by taking her from her Daddy and giving her to a stranger.
If ### loved her as much as he claims he would have never put her life in danger.
I would also like you to refrain from using my works address for correspondence. If you continue to do so I shall be forced to resign and seek employment elsewhere.
I will issue with my solicitors details once attained
Regards
$$$
A few points I would like to add are:
I never drove my car with %%% in there on my own. My Mother a driver of 8 years was always with me.
She accussed me of assaulting her and had me arrested for it. The police arrested me and I went to the station to give a statement. The police released me as she had no proof I had done it. No caution or bail conditions.
Regards me driving to Tamworth my Dad has always met me at the train station in Tamworth and always dropped me off there.
She said I am abusive but one day after this letter was sent it was her husband that come around to my house and got himself arrested on the charge of Bulgalary and assault
I have paid towards %%%. I am currently ON JSA and I have contacted the CSA about this. It is the CSA who has taken a few months to get this sorted and I am now paying for %%% out of my JSA
If I had been sacked for theft why was the police never involved.
And in regards to me stealing from my moms ex. I gave him the money for a online game and used his card. The following month it cames out again but I had forgotten to cancel it. He got his statement and accused me of stealing from him. I did pay him back for that month to.
The courts will look whats at best interest for %%% and let her see her real Dad
Also notice how she Wrote the letter to @@@. My solicitors name is ~~~. @@@ is my Solicitors secretary.
[Edit Rob C: Names of all parties deleted]